When I was a little girl, my mother used to try to discipline me by having me stand facing a corner.
Although it kept me out of her hair, it didn’t give the desired result, for left to my own devices when stuck in a corner, I used my imagination in order to continue to play. I made up songs and stories, having no difficulty at all forming a day dream reality to wander into.
Yesterday I found myself in an emotional corner. I am a member of a site that I will be leaving. I have one friend at the site who lives in England and whose computer only seems to allow him to use the instant messenger on that site and not the regular (I refuse to name names) services provided in the Internet.
Since chats with him are always mutually beneficial, I was in a quandary as to how to fulfill my need to quit the site, yet maintain the fine friendship I had with him. We relate as sister and brother.
The thought struck that if I were a man, I wouldn’t be having the difficulties I had at that site and a light went off! I decided to become my brother’s brother!! I created an identity, and had “him” join the site so my brother and I would still be able to use the IM. All I would have to do is to keep a tab on my browser set to that site when I was online.
On thing led to another. My male identity now has two blogs! I’m a creative writer. Female writers have taken on male identities often. Now I am my brother’s sister and my brother’s brother.
What fun!! When pushed in a corner, I still play.

